Intimacy is one of the few scenes in life where I feel myself. There I can be relaxed, at ease and centred.

It’s the bits before and after intimacy I have the trouble with. I have trouble with all the silly games that are played out when a sex attraction is the thing. I could do without them.

I then have a problem with the after-part when the expectation kicks in along with the social conformity. That sends me into major retreat.

Both these I have a big problem with but around pure intimacy itself, no issues. In fact I could happily live my life in an intimate state.