I never knew a woman who had the right moves. They were either too cool or too keen. Cool as far as it goes is fine but invariably the cool ones aren't so cool. They tend to flip and as if from nowhere become too keen. It then appears that the cool was manipulative, just a guise maybe, a seduction technique. I might feel resentful then as if duped into falling for the cool. Neither too cool nor too keen is the thing, just someone who knows the right measure and the right moves. Anyone?