Thursday, 27 October 2011
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Sexual integrity should trump exclusivity.(Judith Stacey)
Friday, 8 July 2011
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The English language is deficient when it comes to discussing the carnal pleasures.
Friday, 29 April 2011
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There is no store of cultural intelligence available to which young couples can turn for relationship values.
Thursday, 11 February 2010
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I like the cosmopolitan atmosphere of cities where just as many people are from elsewhere and they have to try that bit harder to connect.
Saturday, 15th August 2009
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Twitter has been an enlightening experience and I am rather taken by it
Wednesday, 22 July 2009
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There is nothing but nothing in the human enterprise not defined by relationships.
Friday, 17 July 2009
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There are probably only about six people in the world and they keep coming back.
Wednesday, 18 March 2009
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Exclusivity is a major compromise and shuts down all kinds of valuable relationship possibilities.
Wednesday, 22 July 2009
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To be fully social I think you have to be in the room.
Monday, 17 November 2008
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Invariably the cool ones aren't so cool.
Sunday, 6 July 2008
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There has to be some pay-back for the degraded state that women fall to in order to be somebody's life-partner.
Wednesday, 11 June 2008
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The one thing in life that will make you less happy is having children. (Betsey Stevenson)
Thursday, 27 March 2008
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Too much drawing on relationships for subsistence and base purposes corrupts their potential.
Saturday, 1 March 2008
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In terms of mental health the Scots are well down the league table.
Sunday, 10 February 2008
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Most of the professional sex-for-money arrangements that are made of a day are of higher value for their naked honesty than many of the dubious deals that are done in the name of holy matrimony.
Wednesday, 28 November 2007
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A woman without a man is like a man without a job.
Sunday, 5 August 2007
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The context of love possibilities is endless.
Sunday, 13 May 2007
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I get a bit annoyed at that pseudo-feminist sniping at men.
Thursday, 22 March 2007
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It is necessary to know what feelings are, to be reflective with respect to them.
Sunday, 4 March 2007
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As good food is nourishment to the body, then good relationships are nourishment to the soul.
Tuesday, 7 November 2006
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When giving and receiving are truly mutual, that is the mark of good relationship.
Thursday, 2 November 2006
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Men and women don't have great understanding each of the other sexually.
Saturday, 21 October 2006
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To wrap such a profound package into a comedic context made this a work of true genius.
Friday, 20 October 2006
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Good relationships are rare if they exist at all.
Friday, 12 May 2006
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Sex is not sufficient alone for good relationship.
Tuesday, 2 May 2006
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Women are every bit as good at compartmentalising as men when they have to be.
Friday, 3 February 2006
Most Relationships Are Rubbish
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I don't like people much.
Saturday, 31 December 2005
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If a higher value was accorded to relationship the world would be a better place to inhabit.
Thursday, 22 December 2005
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When people win some private space while still enjoying the security of connection, that advantage is almost always taken up.
Tuesday, 7 November 2006
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The list goes on of examples of man's inhumanity to man.
Wednesday, 14 December 2005
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When they talk about being 'in' a relationship or 'having' one, what they mean is partnership.
Friday, 9 December 2005
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It can be easier to get along with people one is not especially close to or has designs and hopes projected on.
Sunday, 27 November 2005
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As living alone becomes a norm and an acceptable aspiration then the days of the traditional family are numbered.
Wednesday, 19 October 2005
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We are each the supplier to the other and seek out those others accordingly.
Tuesday, 28 June 2005
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Forget the soul. Go for the sex.
Wednesday, 19 October 2005
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Growth leading to development arriving at compatibility is the good thing to be had.
Sunday, 24 April 2005
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A spiritual bonding is better than a biological one. Social affiliations are superior to blood ties.
Tuesday, 22 March 2005
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Deviancy in its various forms is more common than realised.
Sunday, 13 February 2005
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Intimacy is the key to a meaningful life.
Tuesday, 4 January 2005
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Seeking understanding of others and taking into account their needs alongside one’s own allows scope for synergy.
Saturday, 23 October 2004
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Family life proves to be an excellent incubator for a host of psychological weaknesses.
Monday, 20 September 2004
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I think it is the wrong partnerships which preside in most cases.
Tuesday, 13 July 2004
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It is emotionally independent individuals who can sincerely participate in true relationship.
Tuesday, 22 June 2004
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For marriage women will endure all kinds of injustices.
Tuesday, 8 June 2004
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If we want a better world we need a better system of values.
Saturday, 29 May 2004
Exclusivity: A Bad Consequence
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The consequence of heavily rule-bound relationships based on insecurity is that over time they loose their vitality.
Thursday, 15 April 2004
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I’ve never really tried hard enough to get to know a person in the way I crave to be known myself.
Sunday, 14 March 2004
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Unfortunately many mistake dependency for relationship and get involved too much in a needy way.
Wednesday, 10 March 2004
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Delusion can be a powerful driving force.
Friday, 19 December 2003
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Behaviour within families is unreconstructed compared to in a broader community where a person has to modify to fit.
Sunday, 14 March 2004
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I think that to relate to others properly you need to be listening to them and identifying with them.
Thursday, 13 December 2003
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It feels like I’m not being engaged properly but only for what I might bring to her agenda.
Tuesday, 12 August 2003
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You have to beware others coming at you brandishing the convention stick.
Saturday, 2 August 2003
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There are people who virtually collect friends so they can enhance their own importance in the eyes of others.
Tuesday, 3 June 2003
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For progress we need to find other ways for intimacy, ways less based on contractual exclusion and more based on an inclusive, shared space.
Monday, 10 March 2003
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It’s the psychology of the participants that determines quality of relationship.
Thursday, 27 February 2003
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When I’m remarking along similar lines to Helvin my assumption is that such inclinations would be alien to any woman.
Tuesday, 25 February 2003
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Any relationship is not better that no relationship for me like seems to be the case for most.
Friday, 7 February 2003
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I used to be conceited enough to think that the degree to which I was indulged by the women in my life when younger was because I was some kind of great guy.
Friday, 17 January 2003
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A man who is one minute passionate, the next remote, can never quite be possessed by a woman. (Chrissey Iley)
Tuesday, 7 January 2003
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Manipulate in a good way that makes someone feel better and has them performing better for you as well as themselves is all good in my book.
Tuesday, 24 December 2002
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Is a world which identifies people in terms of their marital status just a bit fucked up?
Friday, 20 December 2002
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What kind of woman would be attracted to a man who identifies with FHM?
Friday, 13 December 2002
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I think of there being two prerequisites for my being attracted to someone.
Tuesday, 26 November 2002
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Relationship equates with a woman’s station in life and it tends to be from here that she derives a sense of place.
Monday, 11 November 2002
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In our society, women insist upon a male of their own. (Germaine Greer)
Monday, 19 August 2002
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We probably objectify most people we encounter of a day.
Friday, 16 November 2001
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I feel that the mother/child dynamic has too much of narcissism and dependency about it.
Sunday, 5 August 2001
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True monogamy is an ideal most people are incapable of even conceiving of, let alone achieving.
Thursday, 12 October 2000
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To be able to say that I have escaped my self-centredness, I think that’s a Christ-like statement. (Spong)
Saturday, 26 February 2000
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Compassion is about looking into another person, trying to see how it is for them, and acting accordingly.
Sunday, 20 February 2000
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The status of having someone seems more important than who the someone is.
Sunday, 20 July 1997
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An attainable ideal of love would exist between self-realising personalities. (Maslow)
Wednesday, 2 July 1997
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If you ever really loved anyone you never leave them in the real sense.
